Sunday, June 6, 2010
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Foundations for Marriage less Society!!
Even after 3 years since my divorce, I did not marry. I wanted to have freedom after 3 years or marriage and another 2 years of court cases. I wanted to live life exactly the way I wanted. I knew I can not live my kind of life, if I get married even to the best "Sati Savitri in the world".
I know, how miserable lives of my married friends are. Yeah. They go to parties, they have birthday celebration of their children. But, they are so busy and so worried and time will pass before they get old without knowing what they did to their lives.
Here I am. I left my job, started a company and traveling around the world, when I wish. I know, I can do whatever I want to do being free.
In many countries in Europe including in Germany, people almost have not only lost trust on marriage but also on having children.
Many old people in these countries do not have children. Then there are other questions for married men:
1) What is your children never take care of you in old age?
2) What if one is married and his wife dies before him and he is lonely at the age of 65 and children are not ready to take care of him?
3) Today most people have one or two children only. There is guarantee that any child will take care of parents given the current trends.
If an alternative marriageless society is created, that will empower men. If a man's wife dies when he is 50, what does he do? Marry again?
How long we have to follow the social definition of having a good life inside marriage? How long good life will remain dependent on having a wife? Today, women are not thinking about husband, then why men have to think about having a wife?
How about creating separate systems and structures for non-married men (even in old age)?
One idea is to create an modern Ashram for old age. If a completely alternative living model is created for single men, many men will choose not to marry.
If you can face divorce cases or DV cases at the age of 33, then one can face such case at the age of 50 as well. What do people who face it at age of 50 do? Marry again and get another DV case at age of 62?
An alternative lifestyle model for single men has to be designed.
"There are only two kinds of people in this world, Good and Bad. Bad people always fight even with in thier own home/family. Good people always mingle with or love each other irrespective of religion, region, race, and gender."
"The silence of good men is more dangerous than the brutality of bad men"
"The secret of husband-wife relationship: Woman should make sure that she will never hurt the ego of her husband. And, husband should make sure that he will never hurt the emotions of his wife"
"Law can never correct a family, it can only destroy
Thursday, March 26, 2009
oppose to give the power of court to NCW no more stupid Law
I strongly oppose to give the power of court to NCW no more stupid Law
(No maintenance to qualified wife like MSc BE, and professional qualification)
( NCW is gender biased and male hater society and congress is the only supporting party to them.)
NCW is already had drafted and law like 498a, domestic violence. The result of the law as per the data NCRB mentioned is 98% false cases. it is not figure. I want to elaborate the figure.
98% Husband harassed for 4 to 5 years continuously. Congress support such law
98% sister suffered due to trauma of lengthy cases. Congress supports such law
98% husband jobs and carrier are at danger. Congress supports such law.
98% Mother had seen the loosing health’s and tension bearing son's in spite of she had taken care of that son from the childhood, she had given polio doses regularly to him at childhood so that in future he should stand on his own legs and give support to older parents. but she don’t know NCW\ with congress effort will remove her older age support from the parents. Now she is afraid why I give birth to son and why till time keep him alive.?
98% police investigation was wrong as per the NCRB data, it is the misuse of police infrastructure. just to harassed the husband and to show how to dominate men’s'.
98% court time was wasted due to such useless law.
98% child become father less. It is all because of stupid Law maker(congress)
98% father are childless. It is all because of stupid law maker(congress)
You k now who had paid the money to government infrastructure they are income tax payer. Payment of the taxpayer you are using to satisfy the ego of charterless women I.e. NCW. Head of today's NCW leader are either divorced or unmarried. The leader of NCW should be such lady who had seen complete cycle of family, she should successful grandmother. Her family matter had not come to court that can be the good women for such post. analyse yourself how many such member present in NCW. Think again NCW cannot maintain the data of what they claimed.
I am pasting the same example which has given front page of application.
“Claim NCW went ahead and published that in 70 % of cases women are denied maintenance on grounds of adultery. SIFF activists when filed for data to support the claim made by NCW, through an application under Rights to Information Act, 2005, NCW in its reply categorically denied maintaining any such data. It was a white lie published by NCW and a delirious attempt by NCW to fudge statistics and present an otherwise picture to realize vendetta best known to it. Such a body severely lacking integrity and accountability does not deserve such a position.
Simple data they cannot maintain and asking for power.
No maintenance to educated wife. Why the government consider that educated wife like MSc, BE, computer science, teacher professional courses, medical professional courses, most of them donot want to work for the betterment of there own life, discord in married relation it is doesnot means she should seat ideal at home . Even if they had qualification they seat at home so that they can get husband hard earned money. Allowing maintenance for such women is injustice to nation , your multiple law created Lazy people. Then what is the use of there education you had wasted one seat of university on which wo was needy may get education and can use it in there life.
All marriage related law should be in the syallabus of 10 the onward every branch of education so that before husband enter into married relation he should know each and every clause of Law. Let they should know each and every law.
NCW is till time misguided government. How you can believe on such organization.?
NCW are creating more & more law so that Indian joint family system should be break. They want to create more fatherless child, childless father. Giving power to NCW means CALLING GOD TO YOUR HOME FROM TEMPLE AND GIVE BRIBE. NO ONE SHOULD MARRY TO INDIAN GIRL BECAUSE OF NCW LIKE NATIONAL CRIMINAL WIVES (NCW) WAS PRESENT IN INDIA AND GOVERNMENT IS ENTERTAINING THEM. Husband suicide is not considered as husband harassment even after the suicide note mentioned the harassment.
I strongly oppose to give the power of court to NCW and review the Law like Domestic Violance and 498a. Maintenance given to post graduate and graduate wife, which court consider they are unable to earn.
PROPOSALS TO AMEND WOMENS PROTECTION LAWS
1. Section 498A of IPC should be made Non-Cognizable and Bailable. Marriage is not a crime and marital disputes are not crimes either. Where there is no evidence of physical harm to limbs, the police should not be allowed to arrest anyone. The police should not be allowed to randomly summon a husband and his family members to the police station in the name of counseling or questioning in case of marital disputes. We propose that the IPC section 498A be made non-cognizable and Bailable.Misuser of the Law should be heavily punished.
2. Government to pay maintenance to destitute and vagrant women A plethora of laws providing for maintenance is creating confusion and leading to undue delay in matrimonial proceedings. The recently enacted PWDV Act has self contained provisions for interim maintenance as well final maintenance to every woman. Hence provision made in other acts have become redundant and must be repelled. The execution of interim maintenance through court proceedings are cumbersome and orders become unenforceable. It is the bounden duty of the government to protect the woman We propose the government pay the ordered interim maintenance amount forthwith and when husband is proved to be wrong may recover from Husband as arrears of Land Revenue.
3. Section IPC 304B : Should be made applicable to all Women instead of wife only Most tyrannical provision among all Indian statutes and unconstitutional. Very highly age biased. Women do commit suicide or die under unnatural circumstances irrespective of age and marital
status. We believe that the protection available to a wife for seven years immediately after marriage should also be available to every woman. It is again tyrannical, illogical and absurd besides being unconstitutional only to protect a wife that too for seven years from her marriage. The death under suspicious circumstances of every woman irrespective of age, marital status should be brought under this section. The Siblings and parents of the women should indeed to be made responsible for her death. We propose amending Sec 304B IPC so as to bring in every women dying under suspicious circumstances Even Afsal Guru or Godse who committed the gravest of crimes were not asked to prove their innocence to escape punishment. The law require that the offence under this section is deemed to have been committed by husband.
Then asking him to prove his innocence is unheard of anywhere in the world. Even worst of the ruler had hanged Subjects without trial only. We propose the provisions in Evidence Act regarding onus of proof be repealed
4. Domestic Violence Law should be renamed Domestic Harmony Act
A CRIME IS A CRIME whether committed by man or women. Excluding women from punishment is atrocious and mockery of Governance. Even minor physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, and financial abuses which are always sought be projected as Violence, War, Battle Terror would always lead to terrorising Families. Minor skirmishes happening within the four walls of the home is sought to be projected as violence, battle, war, arson, terror etc.,
We propose
a) The name of the legislation be changed to Domestic Harmony Act.
b) The word `woman' in the definition of aggrieved person shall be replaced with the word `person'.
c) The word `any adult male person' in the definition of respondent shall be replaced with `any adult person'
d) The words `Provided that an aggrieved wife or female living in a relationship in the nature of a marriage may also file a complaint against a relative of the husband or the male partner' in the
definition of respondent shall be deleted.
e) The word `violence' wherever appears shall be replaced with `discord'.
f) The jurisdiction for proceedings under this Act shall be the District Munsif Courts or Court of Small Causes as the case may be and trial may be conducted according to Civil Procedure Code.
g) The words in section 28 "Code of Criminal Procedure," be replaced with "Civil Procedure Code"
h) Section 31 should be deleted and Section 31A may be inserted as below Section 31A - Penalty for breach of protection order by respondent. A breach of protection order, or of an interim protection order, by the respondent shall be shall be punishable with a fine which may
extend to twenty thousand rupees.
g) Section 32 should be deleted.
5. Perjury and False Complaint be made punishable. Misuse of the process of law not only costs the public exchequer dearly, but also destroys the personal lives of many innocent citizens. Misuse of law should be treated as a serious crime, and persons who use should be severely punished (at least to the maximum cumulative terms of the misused provisions). We propose the bar under section 195 of Cr P C be removed and perjury and false complaint be made a cognizable offence.
6. Section 9 and 10 of Hindu Marriages Act be repealed The provision for Restitution of Conjugal Rights in Marriage laws are redundant and unenforceable on human beings women protection laws as weapons for settling personal scores in marital disputes. A woman cannot be ordered to live with an unwilling husband by a court order and vice-versa, as emotional involvement is required. Ordering human beings to live together is barbaric and against nature which may even results in crimes being committed. The order on judicial separation is equal to divorce for a limited time. In fact if the order is not enforced it a ground for Divorce only.
We propose the provisions in Hindu Marriage Act for Restitution of Conjugal Rights and Judicial Separation be repealed.
7. Irretrievable breakdown of marriage be made as grounds for divorce No state or court can saddle a woman or a man to live with a practically Dead marriage or a marriage that has broken down beyond repair. The Supreme Court of India had held breakdown of marriages as a ground for divorce and infact recommended to the government to enact the same. We propose including breakdown of marriages as a ground for divorce.
8. Make the Provision under Section 21 B of Hindu Marriage Act Mandatory The statue provides for completion of proceedings under Hindu Marriage be completed within Six Months on proceedings be held on a day to day basis. Even the Supreme Court directed framing of rules to fi time frame in this regard. Courts take years, in fact decades to render decisions. Right to life includes "Right to Speedy trial. Youth and Vigour lost due to delay by women and Men can never be restored. We propose the closure of Family Courts and establishment of Family Tribunals through the Country similar to Debt Tribunal or Tax Tribunal to render speedy disposal of Cases
9. Ensure the provisions of Family Court Act be followed in its Spirit The mandatory provisions in Family Court Act with regard to Method of recording of evidence, Exclusion of Advocates, Admissibility of Evidence etc are totally breached with impunity. But the provision with regard to "in Camera" proceedings are taken as umbrage and only chamber hearings conducted keeping general public out. The Act provides for speedy for disposal and informal enquiry and trial. The
Judiciary all over the Country abuse these provisions more in breach creating hell for the women and man. None of the Courts High Courts have framed and implemented Rules under the Act even after the NCW has framed a draft rules in this regard. Neither requirements of law
are followed nor the recommendations of the NCW implemented and the Judiciary has failed thoroughly. We propose that the Government should establish Family Tribunal and appoint efficient and qualified Members from all walks of life and who can respect emotional equirements of Men and Women in Matrimonial conflict
I strongly oppose to give the power of court to NCW and review the Law like Domestic Violance and 498a. Maintenance given to post graduate and graduate wife, which court consider they are unable to earn.
(No maintenance to qualified wife like MSc BE, and professional qualification)
( NCW is gender biased and male hater society and congress is the only supporting party to them.)
NCW is already had drafted and law like 498a, domestic violence. The result of the law as per the data NCRB mentioned is 98% false cases. it is not figure. I want to elaborate the figure.
98% Husband harassed for 4 to 5 years continuously. Congress support such law
98% sister suffered due to trauma of lengthy cases. Congress supports such law
98% husband jobs and carrier are at danger. Congress supports such law.
98% Mother had seen the loosing health’s and tension bearing son's in spite of she had taken care of that son from the childhood, she had given polio doses regularly to him at childhood so that in future he should stand on his own legs and give support to older parents. but she don’t know NCW\ with congress effort will remove her older age support from the parents. Now she is afraid why I give birth to son and why till time keep him alive.?
98% police investigation was wrong as per the NCRB data, it is the misuse of police infrastructure. just to harassed the husband and to show how to dominate men’s'.
98% court time was wasted due to such useless law.
98% child become father less. It is all because of stupid Law maker(congress)
98% father are childless. It is all because of stupid law maker(congress)
You k now who had paid the money to government infrastructure they are income tax payer. Payment of the taxpayer you are using to satisfy the ego of charterless women I.e. NCW. Head of today's NCW leader are either divorced or unmarried. The leader of NCW should be such lady who had seen complete cycle of family, she should successful grandmother. Her family matter had not come to court that can be the good women for such post. analyse yourself how many such member present in NCW. Think again NCW cannot maintain the data of what they claimed.
I am pasting the same example which has given front page of application.
“Claim NCW went ahead and published that in 70 % of cases women are denied maintenance on grounds of adultery. SIFF activists when filed for data to support the claim made by NCW, through an application under Rights to Information Act, 2005, NCW in its reply categorically denied maintaining any such data. It was a white lie published by NCW and a delirious attempt by NCW to fudge statistics and present an otherwise picture to realize vendetta best known to it. Such a body severely lacking integrity and accountability does not deserve such a position.
Simple data they cannot maintain and asking for power.
No maintenance to educated wife. Why the government consider that educated wife like MSc, BE, computer science, teacher professional courses, medical professional courses, most of them donot want to work for the betterment of there own life, discord in married relation it is doesnot means she should seat ideal at home . Even if they had qualification they seat at home so that they can get husband hard earned money. Allowing maintenance for such women is injustice to nation , your multiple law created Lazy people. Then what is the use of there education you had wasted one seat of university on which wo was needy may get education and can use it in there life.
All marriage related law should be in the syallabus of 10 the onward every branch of education so that before husband enter into married relation he should know each and every clause of Law. Let they should know each and every law.
NCW is till time misguided government. How you can believe on such organization.?
NCW are creating more & more law so that Indian joint family system should be break. They want to create more fatherless child, childless father. Giving power to NCW means CALLING GOD TO YOUR HOME FROM TEMPLE AND GIVE BRIBE. NO ONE SHOULD MARRY TO INDIAN GIRL BECAUSE OF NCW LIKE NATIONAL CRIMINAL WIVES (NCW) WAS PRESENT IN INDIA AND GOVERNMENT IS ENTERTAINING THEM. Husband suicide is not considered as husband harassment even after the suicide note mentioned the harassment.
I strongly oppose to give the power of court to NCW and review the Law like Domestic Violance and 498a. Maintenance given to post graduate and graduate wife, which court consider they are unable to earn.
PROPOSALS TO AMEND WOMENS PROTECTION LAWS
1. Section 498A of IPC should be made Non-Cognizable and Bailable. Marriage is not a crime and marital disputes are not crimes either. Where there is no evidence of physical harm to limbs, the police should not be allowed to arrest anyone. The police should not be allowed to randomly summon a husband and his family members to the police station in the name of counseling or questioning in case of marital disputes. We propose that the IPC section 498A be made non-cognizable and Bailable.Misuser of the Law should be heavily punished.
2. Government to pay maintenance to destitute and vagrant women A plethora of laws providing for maintenance is creating confusion and leading to undue delay in matrimonial proceedings. The recently enacted PWDV Act has self contained provisions for interim maintenance as well final maintenance to every woman. Hence provision made in other acts have become redundant and must be repelled. The execution of interim maintenance through court proceedings are cumbersome and orders become unenforceable. It is the bounden duty of the government to protect the woman We propose the government pay the ordered interim maintenance amount forthwith and when husband is proved to be wrong may recover from Husband as arrears of Land Revenue.
3. Section IPC 304B : Should be made applicable to all Women instead of wife only Most tyrannical provision among all Indian statutes and unconstitutional. Very highly age biased. Women do commit suicide or die under unnatural circumstances irrespective of age and marital
status. We believe that the protection available to a wife for seven years immediately after marriage should also be available to every woman. It is again tyrannical, illogical and absurd besides being unconstitutional only to protect a wife that too for seven years from her marriage. The death under suspicious circumstances of every woman irrespective of age, marital status should be brought under this section. The Siblings and parents of the women should indeed to be made responsible for her death. We propose amending Sec 304B IPC so as to bring in every women dying under suspicious circumstances Even Afsal Guru or Godse who committed the gravest of crimes were not asked to prove their innocence to escape punishment. The law require that the offence under this section is deemed to have been committed by husband.
Then asking him to prove his innocence is unheard of anywhere in the world. Even worst of the ruler had hanged Subjects without trial only. We propose the provisions in Evidence Act regarding onus of proof be repealed
4. Domestic Violence Law should be renamed Domestic Harmony Act
A CRIME IS A CRIME whether committed by man or women. Excluding women from punishment is atrocious and mockery of Governance. Even minor physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, and financial abuses which are always sought be projected as Violence, War, Battle Terror would always lead to terrorising Families. Minor skirmishes happening within the four walls of the home is sought to be projected as violence, battle, war, arson, terror etc.,
We propose
a) The name of the legislation be changed to Domestic Harmony Act.
b) The word `woman' in the definition of aggrieved person shall be replaced with the word `person'.
c) The word `any adult male person' in the definition of respondent shall be replaced with `any adult person'
d) The words `Provided that an aggrieved wife or female living in a relationship in the nature of a marriage may also file a complaint against a relative of the husband or the male partner' in the
definition of respondent shall be deleted.
e) The word `violence' wherever appears shall be replaced with `discord'.
f) The jurisdiction for proceedings under this Act shall be the District Munsif Courts or Court of Small Causes as the case may be and trial may be conducted according to Civil Procedure Code.
g) The words in section 28 "Code of Criminal Procedure," be replaced with "Civil Procedure Code"
h) Section 31 should be deleted and Section 31A may be inserted as below Section 31A - Penalty for breach of protection order by respondent. A breach of protection order, or of an interim protection order, by the respondent shall be shall be punishable with a fine which may
extend to twenty thousand rupees.
g) Section 32 should be deleted.
5. Perjury and False Complaint be made punishable. Misuse of the process of law not only costs the public exchequer dearly, but also destroys the personal lives of many innocent citizens. Misuse of law should be treated as a serious crime, and persons who use should be severely punished (at least to the maximum cumulative terms of the misused provisions). We propose the bar under section 195 of Cr P C be removed and perjury and false complaint be made a cognizable offence.
6. Section 9 and 10 of Hindu Marriages Act be repealed The provision for Restitution of Conjugal Rights in Marriage laws are redundant and unenforceable on human beings women protection laws as weapons for settling personal scores in marital disputes. A woman cannot be ordered to live with an unwilling husband by a court order and vice-versa, as emotional involvement is required. Ordering human beings to live together is barbaric and against nature which may even results in crimes being committed. The order on judicial separation is equal to divorce for a limited time. In fact if the order is not enforced it a ground for Divorce only.
We propose the provisions in Hindu Marriage Act for Restitution of Conjugal Rights and Judicial Separation be repealed.
7. Irretrievable breakdown of marriage be made as grounds for divorce No state or court can saddle a woman or a man to live with a practically Dead marriage or a marriage that has broken down beyond repair. The Supreme Court of India had held breakdown of marriages as a ground for divorce and infact recommended to the government to enact the same. We propose including breakdown of marriages as a ground for divorce.
8. Make the Provision under Section 21 B of Hindu Marriage Act Mandatory The statue provides for completion of proceedings under Hindu Marriage be completed within Six Months on proceedings be held on a day to day basis. Even the Supreme Court directed framing of rules to fi time frame in this regard. Courts take years, in fact decades to render decisions. Right to life includes "Right to Speedy trial. Youth and Vigour lost due to delay by women and Men can never be restored. We propose the closure of Family Courts and establishment of Family Tribunals through the Country similar to Debt Tribunal or Tax Tribunal to render speedy disposal of Cases
9. Ensure the provisions of Family Court Act be followed in its Spirit The mandatory provisions in Family Court Act with regard to Method of recording of evidence, Exclusion of Advocates, Admissibility of Evidence etc are totally breached with impunity. But the provision with regard to "in Camera" proceedings are taken as umbrage and only chamber hearings conducted keeping general public out. The Act provides for speedy for disposal and informal enquiry and trial. The
Judiciary all over the Country abuse these provisions more in breach creating hell for the women and man. None of the Courts High Courts have framed and implemented Rules under the Act even after the NCW has framed a draft rules in this regard. Neither requirements of law
are followed nor the recommendations of the NCW implemented and the Judiciary has failed thoroughly. We propose that the Government should establish Family Tribunal and appoint efficient and qualified Members from all walks of life and who can respect emotional equirements of Men and Women in Matrimonial conflict
I strongly oppose to give the power of court to NCW and review the Law like Domestic Violance and 498a. Maintenance given to post graduate and graduate wife, which court consider they are unable to earn.
Monday, March 9, 2009
why you want to marry? your life is not complete wihtout women ?
Think out of Box or Traditional way.
we will take a look of male child development process.
we will take a look of male child development process.
- First he will worry about the study and marks.
- Then come to 10 th class Exam again tension.
- After that good college admission and tution classes.
- Day and night study for getting percentage and good college admission
- then take professional college admission , becoem doctor, engineer, scientiest. etc.
- as soon as degree completed he come to job market .
- in job also tough fight for performance.
- during all this there was surrounding of good film's, nice looking girls. and watching some good looking couple's. young boy'r keep watching and made a rough sketch of his own life in his mind.
- many Gilrs father keep searching whose son are working where. may boy's father will not know the complete name of there son's company or post but Girls father keep all updates in there pocket.
- till this time this young halfly learned boy' donot trust or belive the dangerorus effect of failed marriage. he think 's it cannot happen with him, because they are somthing different.it happen's only with some greedy guy's.
- but when the same guy get the shot of failed marriage cases, then he start searchign law, and keep crying for help here and there. try to convience to other's that he had not done anything wrong , but at that time he come to know the real picture of curel society, no body will trust on husband family or husband. he can give many proof of false case, but who will listen, just like before he was thinking.
- in the family court also neither lawyer will behave as per his wish nor he will fill that he will get justice, because in fornt of law wife will come and cry and collect the sympthy also benifit.
- he will come to know " how the Divorce in india isDifficult"
- Finally he will get the lession that everthing is for money, or to get property share Girls was fighting , and reality will come infornt of you. till that time your very crucial age of earning will distroyed.
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Education of HMA, IPC498A, DVA, Maintenance compulsary for every boy's in college.
Indian husband don't get freedom. He is being just used by the society in the form of Brother, husband, son. Education given to the Male children do not tell them there right. as per our tradition boy's goes to school , college , study hard , and then come in the job market. initially he work hard , he feel that everybody here is simple as he. he don't know he is unmarried till the time he had freedom after the marriage his all right control goes to the wife legally. if he get good wife then he do not understand his lost right. but when the marriage fails and he comes under barbaric Law then he start asking what is his right, but in the present law system he really do not have the right. Boy's also do not care to read the Law before marriage including me. after job he learn to earn money, and think the life which he has seen in Films.
Who keeps Boy's away from awareness of matrimonial law?
it is our own parents, relative, Teacher, Existing Education system. they only used the sentence " shadi hone ke bad sidha ho jayega" shadi hone ke bad ma - Bap ko chodke chala jayega , Sabhi ladke aasihe karte hai". boy's situation is so bad , if he don't get separated from parents then wife will file 498a , or will pass daily complaint, frequently trip to her parents so that boy's must leave there parent's. husband become sandwich between the wishes of parents and wife.
Many of them choose to do suicide, and many of them fight there cases filed by wife and come out of marriage with loosing many thing in life which he had not predicted or hear anytime during his education.
take any education branch. every one will go through the knot of marriage. engineer, Doctor, Businessmen, teacher, Clark, pilot's, or a small shop owner. nobody knows the Law before marriage. HMA , IPC 498a, DVA, Maintenance all should be in the syllabus of all branches of college. Motor vehicle Act, some cybar law's. so that while moving in society he should feel responsible. and alert from disaster in life. may that boy will decide not to marry because of the unacceptable law. But this Law had been kept away from the main flow of common education and created blind trap to hold the young people.
i would say BIG Mistake " No student Get the knowledge of IPC498a, DVA, Matrimonial cases, Motor vehicle cases , before they come under such Law and get kick of it. if you feel your Law is Very good for society, then Give this law education compulsory to every college boy's student and see the result, many of the boy's will say bye bye to marriage and will choose to live single."
Today the person suffering from the matrimonial dispute just because he was not aware of the such Law. Society also not showing them another path to live his life successfully without Marriage. Respected A.P.J. Kalam , he was comfortable without marriage and had done great work. there are many work in the world other than marriage , but we never think that way and nobody in our family and friends talks like that.
Education Department very well understand the cycle of life. as per traditional ways boy's think about marriage not a legal way. just introduction of one or two day nobody can understand each other. Every boy will go for marriage with girl, so compulsory subject of Hindu matrimonial act, ipc 498a, Domestic violence law should be taught to the boy's. some example should be given them in court cases , just like any other courses has site visit. after going through the study of court matter, he himself can decide what to do? if he feel Indian marriage law is best , ipc 498 , DVA, multiple maintenance cases. is good for his life then he Can choose to marry.
after getting the education of law count marriage rate and divorce rate. then it will give the real picture of GOOD LAW. Before Marriage he cannot imagine the " what will happen if the marriage failed" he had imagine only the positive side. he thinks it cannot happen with him.
for example: while learning two Wheeler , he first learn cycle, then without gear motorcycle, then geared cycle, then car , after all test he become good driver. he need not to see where is clutch and gear. here he do not think and need to learn what to do , if by his driving one person dead what consequence he will face , he cannot imagine. " he thinks only good" bad things he will directly take practical after hitting somewhere .
consider the field of Doctor: he also do dissection of human body, after that some practice under the assistance of good surgeon, after that he start. he got his training in books and some practical.
but in the males life. he remain totally blank about what law Say's but all Government officer thinks' that everybody should behave as per law. how can they understand the law and save there life by doing illegal work.
Legally marriage means how deep the responsibility he has they cannot under stand without reading the law and visit to family court where so many pair's are fighting. After getting the training you can expect there reaction about law.
" Hindu marriage act , IPC498A, Domestic violence ,Multiple maintenance law should be compulsory education for graduation also visit to family court."
if your Law is Good for there Life they will choose to marry and If not they will change there mind from marriage and remain alone.
Who keeps Boy's away from awareness of matrimonial law?
it is our own parents, relative, Teacher, Existing Education system. they only used the sentence " shadi hone ke bad sidha ho jayega" shadi hone ke bad ma - Bap ko chodke chala jayega , Sabhi ladke aasihe karte hai". boy's situation is so bad , if he don't get separated from parents then wife will file 498a , or will pass daily complaint, frequently trip to her parents so that boy's must leave there parent's. husband become sandwich between the wishes of parents and wife.
Many of them choose to do suicide, and many of them fight there cases filed by wife and come out of marriage with loosing many thing in life which he had not predicted or hear anytime during his education.
take any education branch. every one will go through the knot of marriage. engineer, Doctor, Businessmen, teacher, Clark, pilot's, or a small shop owner. nobody knows the Law before marriage. HMA , IPC 498a, DVA, Maintenance all should be in the syllabus of all branches of college. Motor vehicle Act, some cybar law's. so that while moving in society he should feel responsible. and alert from disaster in life. may that boy will decide not to marry because of the unacceptable law. But this Law had been kept away from the main flow of common education and created blind trap to hold the young people.
i would say BIG Mistake " No student Get the knowledge of IPC498a, DVA, Matrimonial cases, Motor vehicle cases , before they come under such Law and get kick of it. if you feel your Law is Very good for society, then Give this law education compulsory to every college boy's student and see the result, many of the boy's will say bye bye to marriage and will choose to live single."
Today the person suffering from the matrimonial dispute just because he was not aware of the such Law. Society also not showing them another path to live his life successfully without Marriage. Respected A.P.J. Kalam , he was comfortable without marriage and had done great work. there are many work in the world other than marriage , but we never think that way and nobody in our family and friends talks like that.
Education Department very well understand the cycle of life. as per traditional ways boy's think about marriage not a legal way. just introduction of one or two day nobody can understand each other. Every boy will go for marriage with girl, so compulsory subject of Hindu matrimonial act, ipc 498a, Domestic violence law should be taught to the boy's. some example should be given them in court cases , just like any other courses has site visit. after going through the study of court matter, he himself can decide what to do? if he feel Indian marriage law is best , ipc 498 , DVA, multiple maintenance cases. is good for his life then he Can choose to marry.
after getting the education of law count marriage rate and divorce rate. then it will give the real picture of GOOD LAW. Before Marriage he cannot imagine the " what will happen if the marriage failed" he had imagine only the positive side. he thinks it cannot happen with him.
for example: while learning two Wheeler , he first learn cycle, then without gear motorcycle, then geared cycle, then car , after all test he become good driver. he need not to see where is clutch and gear. here he do not think and need to learn what to do , if by his driving one person dead what consequence he will face , he cannot imagine. " he thinks only good" bad things he will directly take practical after hitting somewhere .
consider the field of Doctor: he also do dissection of human body, after that some practice under the assistance of good surgeon, after that he start. he got his training in books and some practical.
but in the males life. he remain totally blank about what law Say's but all Government officer thinks' that everybody should behave as per law. how can they understand the law and save there life by doing illegal work.
Legally marriage means how deep the responsibility he has they cannot under stand without reading the law and visit to family court where so many pair's are fighting. After getting the training you can expect there reaction about law.
" Hindu marriage act , IPC498A, Domestic violence ,Multiple maintenance law should be compulsory education for graduation also visit to family court."
if your Law is Good for there Life they will choose to marry and If not they will change there mind from marriage and remain alone.
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